They can be used to penetrate the vagina or anus. They attach to one partner’s pelvis using a harness or underwear-like attachment. Strap-ons are sex toys that are often penis-like in shape. What one partner finds pleasurable, another partner might find boring. Even if you do have the same genitals, every body is different. Remember that just because you’re both women doesn’t mean you have the same genitals - for example, one person might be a cis woman with a vagina, while the other might be a trans woman with a penis. It’s easier because you’re both women.This is the dynamic for some couples, but not all - and remember, penetrating doesn’t make you a “man.” Some people believe that one partner does all the penetration while the other does all the receiving. Someone has to be “the man” in the scenario.There are lots of myths out there about lesbian sex.
